Graduated!!

Saturday was our last class!! YAY!! It was so bittersweet. We had such a great time getting to know everyone is our class and getting closer to our adoption. We hit it off with one couple and had dinner before our last class and carpooled up to Logan. They are way fun and am sure this is just a start of another friendship.
I wanted to talk about our third class that was last Saturday. It was the "panel" class. We had one (out of three) of the birth moms show up to talk to us and share her story. I was bummed that only one showed up. I LOVED hearing her side and all the love and time and prayer and everything she put into her decision to place her baby for adoption. It is such an incredible process on all sides of it. This birth mom talked about how her process of healing has worked and how she feels that adoption was the best choice for herself and her boy. Next they had two couples come that have adopted before. One talked about openness, and the other on interracial adoption. They had wonderful stories to tell and great advice. One thing that I learned is that I am really going to have to hold on to the reigns. I have a tendency to jump right in. All parties at the meeting said it is best to start into the relationship slow and to gain each others trust and slowly open the door to a more open relationship. I want a relationship with the birth mom to be fully trusted and for the child to know exactly where they came from. I want our child to not have any questions about who they are. We have started to pray for our future child and for the birth mom. This has been such a great way to help Mason understand adoption more and to really start to bond with the idea.

First Class

Saturday morning is going to be our first class!! I can't tell you how excited I am!!! It sucked because we were originally told that our classes start May 5, so I was super bummed when I found out I had to wait even longer.  I am not really sure what to expect or what they talk about. That's probably why I can't wait. :) I am also excited just to talk with other cute couples about adoption and what all their stories are. This has been such an adventure already, and we are just getting to the fun stuff!! I got an email yesterday from our social worker, she received all four of our recommendation letters!! YAY!! She said they were all "glowing and very positive" So glad they didn't talk trash. jk.....but seriously. And just so I can remember who we had write letters, this is who we had. They only allowed us to have one family member...lame. So we had our good friends who live by us write one, Jacy and Todd Serr. We had Kent's mom write one because she sees us the most and probably knows Kent the best. We had my best friend Kelly McGraw, who I have known since 7th grade write one. She knows me the best! Then we wanted to do a co-worker, but all Kent's co-workers are all family haha. So then we were thinking for me....We both really wanted to do my old boss at Great Basin Engineering, Brett Blechert. He was like the grumpy, mean guy who is just like my dad. But the most caring, amazing person you'd ever meet. He passed away almost a year ago. I miss him dearly, its weird. You wouldn't ever know how much he meant to me. So sadly, we couldn't have him write one. So we had a lady, Kari Gibson, that I work with write the other one. She actually taught Kent in pre-school (and I think Kindergarten, cant remember now haha). She's amazing and couldn't be happier to have her write the other one.

hubby

One of the questions on my adoption questionnaire ask to describe your spouses’ personality and strengths…thought you would like to read what I wrote

Once you meet my husband, you will agree with everything I say. I am the luckiest girl on this planet. He is tall, dark and handsome with a heart of gold. As cheesy as it sounds, it is true in every possible way. He is not as outgoing as I am to begin with, but he warms up to people fast. He is definitely more on the quiet side. As I am sitting here trying to think of characteristics to describe him, the beginning of Article of Faith number 13 is just running through my mind. He believes in being “honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men.” He comes from a wonderful family where the parents have been the example of what he has become.  I have never seen a family where hard work and service has been so deeply engraved. I truly married above me and am blessed for it every day.